tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15902765368917054022024-03-05T19:23:55.397-05:00Reflections...on Living CreativelyFinding Inspiration in Everyday LifeBekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.comBlogger520125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-81975692136298848382020-02-02T21:01:00.000-05:002020-02-02T21:01:47.434-05:00Who's On Your Team? <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So, there's a football game today! Which got me thinking about teamwork and our message from church a couple of weeks ago. And love, and family. Bear with me, they all mesh, I promise. It's what I do. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Being part of a team is definitely a bonus when you're trying to win. In any area of your life- parenting, your job, friendships- having a strong, cohesive team can be the deciding factor in how you feel when you get up to face the day. Despite setbacks and minor losses (and we ALL have them), knowing you're not going it alone can help lend strength, tenacity, and problem-solving creativity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When you think about the bigger picture of life, this is especially true! You want to be surrounded by people who:</span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">are reliable and someone you can count on</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Let's get real, these people may or may not be your family. For me, my team consists of the people I <i>choose</i> to surround myself with. If I consider you family, you better believe there is a fierce love and loyalty there! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">In <i><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mess-Moxie-Wrangling-Delight-Glorious/dp/0718031849/ref=asc_df_0718031849/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312734685832&hvpos=1o1&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4435067597732959140&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9015642&hvtargid=pla-450191690845&psc=1" target="_blank">Of Mess and Moxie</a>,</i> author Jen Hatmaker refers to love as a way of listening to another person's story, perspective, pain, or experience without judgement. Love is a way of breaking down barriers and truly making another feel welcomed. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">If, as the author claims, "isolation concentrates every struggle", then a handy solution would be found in true teamwork. Think about your worst day at work, or a regrettable parenting memory. Were your burdens eased at all by venting to a trusted co-worker, calling a close momma friend, or the arrival of your co-parent? Even just sharing our struggles with someone close to us can lift stress and help us find solutions we'd otherwise be unable to see on our own. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Humans weren't made to exist in a vacuum. If you look around, you'll find you probably already belong to several "teams", some you may or may not consider family. And the even better news is that, as social creatures, we have the ability to seek new connections, or teams, or repair ones that need strengthening. Love can do that, too. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">One of my longest-playing teams is that of my college girlfriends. I think we're closing in on 25 years now! This is definitely a team-family-tribe that I cherish, and we all rely on in various ways. I have a great team at work, and other teams I'm working to build as a single mom. My kids and I even make a team (some days)- ha! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I challenge you to think of all the teams you play on, your role, and how well the team characteristics fit. Is there room for improvement? Is there a need in your life that could be better met by a new team? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I'm overjoyed to have found my long-lost blog, and am looking forward to connecting with a host of new readers and friends! </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Let me re-introduce myself (since a lot has changed since my last post)...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I'm Bekah, a single mother of 2 teen girls. Let me tell you upfront that my life gets crazy!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">To pay the bills, I work with children with disabilities and their families. I'm good at it. Really good. I've also been at my current job for almost 14 years. My caseload is so demanding that it often interferes with being able to effectively parent my own kids (more on that later). I'm stressed more often than not, and even though I love what I do, it's beginning to weigh me down. So I'm starting to weigh my options. More on that later, too. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For fun, I read, write, sometimes crochet, hang with friends, and binge TV with my girls. We watched Friends all the way through at least 7 times. I love to take pictures, but not in an artsy way, just for reflection and documentation. I'm <i>really</i> into my planner. I watch endless videos about self-improvement, self-reflection, reaching an audience, empowering women, being your authentic self... you get the picture. I could sit in a coffee shop, just chatting and writing probably every day. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I'm on a huge internal overhaul. Vision boards, manifesting, prayer and Bible study, writing and journaling, thinking and talking- so get ready for it! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I'm pretty honest and tend to overshare. So if you like deep conversations with a complete stranger, you've come to the right place! Let's be friends :)</span><br />
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I still need to spend some time with this word to discover what it really means to me. Maybe that process will take all year. I don't know. So far, I know it means moving my body and exercising (a continuation of<a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/12/one-little-word-for-2012.html" target="_blank"> HEALTH</a>, my OLW for 2012). I know it means finishing some projects around the house. It means doing more than watching TV in the evenings. It means following through with some expectations for my kids (think <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/01/family-chore-charts.html" target="_blank">chore chart</a>, from 2011's OLW- CALM).<br />
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...see how these words never really go away, how they complement and bolster each other? I just love that. <br />
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I can't wait to find out what else ACTION will come to mean to me this coming year. <br />
Do you have a guiding word or make resolutions for the New Year? I'd love the hear about it!<br />
Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-6290345247731608432012-12-27T14:43:00.003-05:002012-12-27T14:43:27.466-05:00Thankful Thursday 12/27/12the last Thursday in 2012<br />
I haven't blogged in over a month<br />
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these are just random thoughts as the year wraps up<br />
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but here are my gratitudes for the week, the day, this moment...<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I am thankful hubs made it safely to and from work in said snow.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I am thankful for neighbors who will give me a lift when needed.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I am thankful for friends who are just there when I need them, for problems big and small.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I am thankful for forgiveness, both giving and receiving.</span><br />
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Enjoy the last few days of 2012!Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-60600321591231440482012-11-01T18:01:00.000-04:002012-11-01T18:01:27.968-04:00Thankful Thursday 11/1/12Just a hodgepodge of thankful thoughts today...<br />
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I am thankful that all we got from Sandy was a little wind and rain. My heart goes out to all those on the east coast.<br />
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I am thankful to live in a country where I am allowed to VOTE! My husband and I exercised our right to vote early on Monday.<br />
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I am thankful for a little pill called Relpax. It (most of the time) nips my migraines in the bud.<br />
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I am thankful my oldest daughter is learning to cook a few simple things. Tonight she is making soup and grilled cheese, and I get a break! <br />
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Thanks for stopping by. What are you thankful for today?Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-62158850501197903962012-10-25T20:35:00.000-04:002012-10-25T20:35:10.326-04:00Thankful Thursday 10/25/12We just got back from "Math Night" at my kids' school. There are lots of math-related activities. Tonight we estimated the weight of a pumpkin, graphed different varieties of candy corn (white chocolate and green apple- who knew?) and launched tennis balls at targets. <br />
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I am thankful for my kids everyday...just look at these faces!<br />
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Tonight I was reminded how thankful I am for <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/05/thankful-thursday-51911.html" target="_blank">their school</a> and their teachers. These men and women are so creative and patient, and I know they truly care about my children. Tonight my youngest daughter's teacher, Mrs. N, told my husband and I that we need to have two more kids so I can send them to Central. When I asked her why, she said, "Because the two you already have are so awesome!" What a compliment! <br />
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I am thankful for the adults in my life who care about my kids, teach them, and keep them safe. They really are partners in raising my daughters. Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-2804016943128110742012-10-11T04:30:00.000-04:002012-10-11T04:30:02.533-04:00Thankful Thursday 10/11/12<a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2012/10/update-on-one-little-word-2012-health.html" target="_blank">As I mentioned a few days ago</a>, reinstating my Thankful Thursday posts is one way I can work towards my goal of health, my One Little Word for this year.<br />
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<em>I am thankful</em> for our neighbors. It is so nice for my kids to have so many friends living next door, and the hubs and I have made new friends, too. We all end up hanging out or doing something together at least once a week!</div>
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<em>I am thankful</em> for my Kindle Fire. Seriously, I just love that thing. Everyone else in the house loves it too- I barely have a chance to use it these days!</div>
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<em>I am thankful</em> that my youngest daughter is discovering a love for Harry Potter! She's been an avid reader for quite a while now, but I think it's exciting that we'll get to have discussions about some of my favorite characters ever.</div>
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<em>I am thankful</em> that my husband was able to buy a new guitar. He's patiently waited for one for over a year, and I love listening to him play in the evenings.</div>
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I love the sense of fulfillment and gratitude this practice cultivates. Definitely good for my mental health!<br />
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-35945031973744358072012-10-03T06:00:00.000-04:002012-10-03T06:00:14.809-04:00Update on One Little Word 2012: HealthI didn't follow through with my <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/12/one-little-word-for-2012.html" target="_blank">One Little Word album</a> this year, but I have been reflecting this past week on what I have accomplished toward my goal of <em>health</em>. Some things were deliberate, and some just luck. What else can I do in these last few months of the year?<br />
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<u><strong>Physical health</strong></u>- Through some rough medical treatments, time, and a little luck, I am now in remission from Meniere's disease and<a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/08/face-of-prednisone-it-aint-pretty.html" target="_blank"> Relapsing Polychondritis</a>. I returned to work in December of last year. I have worked hard to lose over 50 pounds so far, and have been able to discontinue two of my medications. Good progress here!<br />
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<strong><u>Mental health-</u></strong> Feeling good physically has definitely helped my mental outlook as well. I can't think of anything I've really put into practice to help in this area. To do: re-establish weekly <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2012/02/thankful-thursday-2212.html" target="_blank">"Thankful Thursday" posts</a>. This is such a great way to keep perspective.<br />
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<strong><u>Relationship health</u></strong>- I think I've done a great job here this year. My family and I took a long-anticipated vacation to Disney World this past spring, and we all had a great time! We made some great memories that will last for years to come. I (only partially willingly) took a new position at work, and I've worked for months to accept the realities of my new job. Some of the benefits are that I am able to establish a different sort of relationship with the families I support, and build new professional connections as well. My husband and I just celebrated our 12 year anniversary with a quick get-away. We considered various locations, but in the end we consciously spent our time at a secluded cabin. This trip was about US, not about doing stuff.<br />
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<strong><u>Financial health-</u></strong> I admit, the report is not so great here. Sure, we're paying all the bills and afforded a couple of vacations this year, but our savings is still stagnant. To do: make a plan to boost up that account a little- E-bay? Making and selling cards or crochet projects? Yard sale? <br />
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I have three more months to focus on <em>health, </em>and I'm looking forward to what I can accomplish. I hope that <em>health</em> continues to linger in my mind, as <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/03/achieving-calm-one-decision-at-time.html" target="_blank"><em>calm</em> (my One Little Word from 2011)</a> has thus far. A few ideas are percolating pertaining to next year's word, too! Some seem obvious to me, but one or two words caught me by surprise but are persistently creeping into my conscious- one of these words keeps popping up in my blog posts. Can you guess what it is?<br />
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Do you have a special word or quote that helps move you forward? Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-69189704944283436982012-10-02T13:30:00.000-04:002012-10-02T13:30:00.061-04:00Comfort<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today's <a href="http://shuttersisters.com/onewordproject/2012/10/1/october-prompts.html" target="_blank">One Word Project</a> prompt at Shutter Sisters...<em>Comfort</em><br />
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-79891065899262693082012-10-01T06:30:00.000-04:002012-10-01T06:30:00.070-04:00Book Review: Lone Wolf by Jodi Picoult<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12059658-lone-wolf" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="Lone Wolf" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1327939695m/12059658.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12059658-lone-wolf">Lone Wolf</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7128.Jodi_Picoult">Jodi Picoult</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/414517973">4 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Most people either really love Jodi Picoult or really don't. I am generally a neutral party- some of her books I love, some are just so-so for me. This book definitely fell into the "love" category.<br />
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The whole story just feels so raw. Painful family relationships are juxtaposed with close encounters with wolves, both in captivity and in the wild. I know this sounds like a strange combination, but it works.<br />
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Luke is a father of two and a wolf activist. He not only leaves his family for almost two years to live in the wild, he also maintains a pack in captivity. He has dedicated his life to preservation and education. <br />
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Luke's daughter, Cara, moves in with him after her parents divorce. Edward, Cara's older brother, packed up and left the country when he was just 18. The estranged siblings are thrown together when tragedy strikes and Luke is in a coma.<br />
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I won't give away the rest of the book, because the major drama and emotion in the book comes from the siblings' differing views on end-of-life decisions.<br />
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This was touching and heart-wrenching, at times even painful. But beautifully done!
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-84550988357730873702012-09-30T15:19:00.000-04:002012-09-30T15:19:30.035-04:00Procrastination?For most of my life, I have been a doer. Get it done now. No time like the present. <br />
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Then I hit my mid-30's and something changed. I slowed down and relaxed my sense of urgency. While that's really just a nice way of saying I'm now a major procrastinator, it <em>is</em> true that letting go of, or at least putting off, not-so-important tasks has helped me <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/03/achieving-calm-one-decision-at-time.html" target="_blank">cultivate calm</a>.<br />
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Today I realized something equally important. Letting go is only good until the undone tasks start to create stress instead of relieve it. <br />
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We painted our living room several months ago. I bought new furniture and lamps, and had a vague plan for the wall space over the couch. This is what that area looks like today:<br />
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Yep. Still bare. This has been really bugging me for the past few weeks. So much so, that every time I look at that wall I scowl. Not good. The time for procrastination is over. Today I started painting some things I know I want on the wall, and put out a call to Facebook friends for a couple of other items I want.<a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2012/09/losing-my-passion.html" target="_blank"> Action feels good</a>.<br />
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To maintain my momentum, I am returning to one of my favorite organizational techniques, list making. I am trying something new and making my list time-sensitive by putting my to-do tasks on our family calendar. Everything won't get done at once, but I have a visual prompt to keep chipping away, and a reference that assures me there is light at the end of the tunnel. To maintain calm, I am admitting up front that my schedule may need tweaked now and then to accommodate changes to the kids' schedule (think extra dance practice before their parade in November), and the unplannable, such as my niece who is due in a week or so! Notice I said <em>tweaked</em>, not abandoned!<br />
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">Are you a procrastinator? If so, are you good with that, or do you find ways to keep yourself going?</span>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-33628550432571113262012-09-22T06:30:00.000-04:002012-09-22T06:30:00.130-04:00Around Here, September 2012<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, my girls are deciding on Halloween costumes, changing their minds, then changing them back again.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, we are enjoying spending time with our neighbors- driveway tailgating and backyard bonfires. Lots of kids running around.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here,</span> we are amazed that Justin's <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2010/12/what-if-or-you-and-me-togetherorthe-day.html" target="_blank">accident</a> happened two years ago this month.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, Morgan is struggling with homework. I hate to see her dislike school so much, and it is very stressful for her <em>and</em> me.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, Justin and I are getting ready to celebrate our 12th wedding anniversary with a little trip to a secluded cabin. Can't wait!<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here,</span> both girls are taking dance lessons. That makes for one long night of classes! <br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here,</span> we all fight over the Kindle!<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, we are having a lot of discussions about autism. We finally sat the girls down and told them that Morgan has Asperger's Syndrome. <br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here,</span> school papers are already stacking up and multiplying. I just signed my first permission slip of the year.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here,</span> Vivian is really caught between wanting to be a big kid, and still needing to be the baby. She has decided it is hard being the little sister.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, I am enjoying the cooler mornings and evenings.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Around here</span>, we still seek patience, simplicity, and forgiveness.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Other "Around Here" posts: </span><a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/11/around-here-november-2011.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: x-small;"> 2011</span></a><span style="font-size: x-small;">, </span><a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2010/02/around-herea-brief-reflection-on-my.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: x-small;">2010</span></a><br />
Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-88459830829948653892012-09-20T06:30:00.000-04:002012-09-20T06:30:03.288-04:00Losing my Passion<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As I was sitting on my front porch today watching all the neighborhood kids run around, relishing these last few weeks of outdoors time, I found myself being a little jealous of their joy. Their energy. Their passion.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have had a lot of good things happen this year. I moved into a new position at work. I've been healthy. I've lost weight. Took a great family trip to Disney World. But I seem to have lost my passion for a lot of things I once treasured. Some of those things I can live without, and chalk it up to "people change". But some things I don't WANT to let go...taking photos, scrapbooking, blogging about more than book reviews, my role as family memory-keeper. I dropped Project 365 and only got two months in to my </span><a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/12/one-little-word-for-2012.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One Little Word</span></a><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> project. I have only scrapped through September 2011, and have not yet printed any photos from 2012. What gives?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While I feel a tinge of disappointment, mostly I feel an awakening. A welcoming of possibilities. An excitement to recommit to these things I love. I've enjoyed browsing for some new products that might help me simplify my memory-keeping, like </span><a href="http://www.beckyhiggins.com/products/what-is-project-life.php" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Project Life</span></a><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">. I'm gathering up supplies to start prepping my </span><a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/11/time-to-begin-this-years-december-daily.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">December Daily project</span></a><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">. I've ordered last year's pictures for my girls' school albums. I have two meaningful blog posts written and scheduled.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Have you had a similar experience? Lost your passion and joy for something you truly love? How did you re-ignite that spark?</span>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-23069702765990350242012-09-19T16:26:00.001-04:002012-09-19T16:26:14.777-04:00Fall is in the air...Can you feel it? <br />
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I love all the sensory experiences of fall...<br />
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-85650042716764206982012-09-15T10:00:00.000-04:002012-09-15T10:00:02.866-04:00<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5091.The_Dark_Tower" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="The Dark Tower (Dark Tower # 7)" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1165517582m/5091.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5091.The_Dark_Tower">The Dark Tower</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3389.Stephen_King">Stephen King</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/183412298">4 of 5 stars</a><br />
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I began my quest alongside Roland in September of 2010 with The Gunslinger. I was sitting in a hospital room with my husband who had suffered a terrible accident at work. I got an email from my local library on September 8, 2012, telling me that my reserved copy of The Dark Tower was ready to be picked up. Two years TO THE DAY of my husband's accident and the day I turned to page one in this entire series. <em>Ka.<br /></em>In this final installment, Roland and his ka-tet are broken apart, over and over. It's really quite devestating to read. Through all the loss and pain, we get to witness a bit of honesty, a bit of doubt, and a bit of love...all from the bold and single-minded Gunslinger.<br /><br />I honestly can't say I loved the entire book. Some parts were pretty slow, as in the previous books. I can't say I loved more appearances by Stephen King. I, as a lot of other Constant Readers, found this to be too self-indulgent. After reading the Coda, I am content with his explaination. I can't say I loved the ending, because it was almost too unfair to be true.<br /><br /><em>I can say I loved the journey.</em>
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-36386975152831311202012-09-14T18:20:00.000-04:002012-09-14T18:20:23.127-04:00Book Review: Trace by Patricia Cornwell<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6530.Trace" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="Trace (Kay Scarpetta, #13)" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1310723816m/6530.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6530.Trace">Trace</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1025097.Patricia_Cornwell">Patricia Cornwell</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/414491299">2 of 5 stars</a><br />
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I just don't know. This is the second Scarpetta book I have read (admittedly out of order), and there's something I'm just not getting.<br />
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This one begins promisingly enough, with Kay and detective Pete Marino heading back to Virginia to help solve the mysterious death of a 14 year old girl. We meet some creepy people- the new chief medical examiner, for one, and our real bad guy, Edgar Allen Pogue. <br />
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"Trace" centers around trace evidence found at three seemingly unrelated crime scenes. One of these, of course, involves Kay's niece Lucy. Lucy has a wicked intellect and is about as self-absorbed and destructive as a PMSing teenager. <br />
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The story surrounding the crimes is actually pretty good- but there is too much distraction for this to be a really good book. The CME is thrown in as kind of a red herring- he has some skeletons in his closet, but we never reslove anything with him. You can feel Kay and Benton (her, what? Boyfriend? Husband? I'm not sure what he is at this point) struggling to bury their hurtful past, but no one talks about it and there is no confrontation. Some opportunities for real drama are just skated over.<br />
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I've heard the earlier Scarpetta novels are better, but I think I'm done.
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-35928674522439392062012-09-06T18:13:00.000-04:002012-09-09T08:33:55.986-04:00Book Review: The Scarpetta Factor <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6495359-the-scarpetta-factor" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="The Scarpetta Factor (Kay Scarpetta, #17)" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1255577530m/6495359.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6495359-the-scarpetta-factor">The Scarpetta Factor</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1025097.Patricia_Cornwell">Patricia Cornwell</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/408776203">3 of 5 stars</a><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I have to admit I had never read a Kay Scarpetta book before this one. I will be reading more! It reminds me of Bones, without the social awkwardness. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Kay is a Medical Examiner for the city of New York. The cast of (I'm guessing) regular characters is long, but includes Detective Marino, her computer whiz niece Lucy, and psychologist-husband Benton. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I thought this book was a nice mix of technology, medical terminology, and detective work. The crew is hunting the truth about what happened to Tori, a woman found murdered in Central Park. We learn through example that it's best to let the fact tell the sotry, instead of fitting the facts to a convenient theory.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">There was not as much suspense as I had expected, but other than that, a good read.
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-65274501198555277182012-08-27T07:00:00.000-04:002012-08-27T07:00:12.815-04:00<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/15837801-love-unfinished" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="Love Unfinished" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1345463468m/15837801.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/15837801-love-unfinished">Love Unfinished</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5241424.Darian_Wilk">Darian Wilk</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/400715029">1 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Wow, I can't believe so many other readers gave this 4 or 5 stars...<br />
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IF (and that's a big IF) you can get past the terrible editing and e-book formatting, the characters, plot and dialogue leave so much to be desired.<br />
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The story emerges as somewhat hokey, but sweet- a young couple is killed on their wedding day and arrive in a sort of limbo, with a chance to find each other again through reincarnation. <br />
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From there on in, the story is a confusing mix of plot angles and choppy phrasing. I get the gist- Emma (the reincarnated Carol) finds herself in a loveless marriage to a dishonest, manipulative politician. Through a series of seemingly coincidental events, she falls in love with James, a quiet, earnest antique dealer. It comes as no surprise that he is actually her former-life love, Ted. <br />
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What really got to me were these random plot points- Emma's jerk of a husband becomes abusive out of the blue. She has this crazy, alcoholic, bitchy best friend who seems like the same sort of person Emma loathes. At one point James discovers an old gold brooch and a photo of Carol/Emma wearing it on her (first) wedding day, and seems to get the connection...but instead of this being a major turning point in the story, it is glossed over and never fully explained. Emma herself has a personality that goes where the wind blows...desperate for the love of the ass she married, strong and determined, disgusted with herself for loving a man who is not her husband, snarky and catty. <br />
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I found this book to be boring, lacking in fully thought-out scenes, and grammatically excrutiating. Recommended for no one!
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-78779424790405645582012-08-26T07:00:00.000-04:002012-08-26T09:42:32.639-04:00Book Review: Dead is the New Black<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12605502-dead-is-the-new-black" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="Dead Is the New Black" border="0" height="320" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1326748286m/12605502.jpg" width="230" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12605502-dead-is-the-new-black">Dead Is the New Black</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4734981.Christine_DeMaio_Rice">Christine DeMaio-Rice</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/398094663">2 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Lauren is a fashionista turned amature sleuth. As a patternmaker in New York City's garment district, she gives us a close look at how high-end clothing is made, from cutting on the bias to picking the right thread to sew on a button. Think along the lines of "The Devil Wears Prada" or "Project Runway". <br />
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The story begins about a week before a major fashion show. Her whole office is in a whirl preparing. Hardworking Lauren comes into work on a weekend, only to find her boss (the dashing gay man she's crushing on) standing over the dead body of his financial backer. Talk about a monkey wrench!<br />
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The list of potential perps gets a little confusing, as the number of minor characters is long. A few side trips into Lauren's relationship with her sister, a beat-down by pseudo-mobsters, and a kiss from her long-time pal Stu add to the confusion. <br />
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As Lauren and her sister chase down one lead after another, she gets closer to the surprising truth, and danger. <br />
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This was a cute story, and I liked the fashion industry backdrop. However, the plot lines were too complex for such a simple idea, and the various characters/motives were too plentiful to really make sense.
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Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-77359580204526946762012-08-25T14:58:00.000-04:002012-08-25T14:58:18.248-04:00Then and Now<span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">What a difference a year makes!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">Last year about this time, I was sick. Really, really sick. Dizzy and in pain, on tons of steroids, unable to work. Felt terrible, looked terrible. Back then, I wrote about the </span><a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2011/08/face-of-prednisone-it-aint-pretty.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">Face of Prednisone</span></a><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">, about how cruel life-saving drugs can be. I was on the medication from about May 2011 to April 2012. Here's what I looked like in November of last year:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">Since I went back to work in December, I have been working hard to lose the steroid weight and get in shape. After losing about 20 pounds on my own, I got serious and joined Weight Watchers Online. I know it's not for everyone, but it has worked for me in the past, so I jumped on a sale they ran at the end of April. So far, 51 pounds gone! Here's me, this past weekend:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">I am a work in progress. I still have a lot of weight to lose. Next up is adding regular exercise into my life. But I am feeling stronger and healthier every day. I can carry a load of laundry up the stairs without pain- I can take a walk at the park without being dizzy- I can drive myself to work- that's such a great feeling! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;"><em>What a difference a year makes</em>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">This post was inspired by <a href="http://danabugseyeview.blogspot.com/2012/08/thankful-thursday_9.html" target="_blank">The Bug's post about her own then/now</a>.</span>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-42989608718989418872012-08-10T17:59:00.002-04:002012-08-10T17:59:50.087-04:00Book Review: These Girls by Sarah Pekkanen<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12360163-these-girls" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="These Girls" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1334172766m/12360163.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12360163-these-girls">These Girls</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2982045.Sarah_Pekkanen">Sarah Pekkanen</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/384082086">3 of 5 stars</a><br />
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These girls- namely Renee, Cate and Abby- are all young women who have come to New York City and are struggling to make it. And these girls have some problems with a capital P!! Dropped out of college after an affair with a professor, diet pill abuse, the nanny who sleeps with the married father of her charge...can they have any more drama?<br />
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Despite the drama, you still end up rooting for them (after you roll your eyes at some of the stupidity). You get a real sense of their personalities and how they navigate relationships. And NO ONE ends up with the guy. That's refreshing.<br />
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While it wasn't a super-exciting page turner, it was a nice look at female insecurities, work conflicts, and friendship.
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1385701-bekah">View all my reviews</a>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-18350449381904480852012-08-04T16:57:00.000-04:002012-08-04T16:57:19.053-04:00Book Review: The Book of Madness and Cures by Regina O'Melveny<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12821037-the-book-of-madness-and-cures" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="The Book of Madness and Cures" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1318029004m/12821037.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12821037-the-book-of-madness-and-cures">The Book of Madness and Cures</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1715786.Regina_O_Melveny">Regina O'Melveny</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/382097162">2 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Set the in late 16th century, our protagonist and female doctor Gabriella goes of in search of her errant father. She travels with two longtime servants across Europe and northern Africa. Then NOTHING HAPPENS.<br />
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Danger and suspicion of women are hinted at, but are never really close enough to threaten. The prose is so even-tempered, that even when the good Dottor almost drowns in a lake, I didn't realize it until they found her dead horse, who did drown.<br />
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The most interesting part of this book was the descriptions of some incredible diseases (mostly mental or emotional in nature) and their cures that were described. Imagine contracting "Porphyria: An Abborrhence of Light that Causes One to Suffer Cankers and Grow the Fur of a Beast"...no known cure. <br />
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These little gems were bright spots in an otherwise melancholy and tepid read.
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1385701-bekah">View all my reviews</a>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-71867312768024852142012-08-01T09:00:00.000-04:002012-08-01T09:00:11.020-04:00Book Review: 'Salem's Lot by Stephen King<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11590._Salem_s_Lot" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="'Salem's Lot" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1327891565m/11590.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11590._Salem_s_Lot">'Salem's Lot</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3389.Stephen_King">Stephen King</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/381290264">3 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Not my favorite King novel, but I'm still kinda surprised I had never picked this one up. My main motivation was reading about Pere Callahan in the Dark Tower series...he figured in the latter half of this book pretty heavily.<br />
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I thoroughly enjoyed the author's forward, as I often do. I love hearing SK describe his childhood, the books he read growing up, and a book's backstory- why or how it came to be written. <br />
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So, the story itself-- vampires. Not much else to say. King sticks close to common vampire lore and kills off some likeable and sympathetic Not quite as creepy as I had imagined, but still a good read.
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1385701-bekah">View all my reviews</a>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-45582366968948631982012-07-31T18:53:00.002-04:002012-07-31T18:53:46.327-04:00Book Review: The Right-Hand Shore: A Novel by Christopher Tilghman<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13166651-the-right-hand-shore" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="The Right-Hand Shore: A Novel" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1327964194m/13166651.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13166651-the-right-hand-shore">The Right-Hand Shore: A Novel</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/185530.Christopher_Tilghman">Christopher Tilghman</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/376952321">4 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Although this book took a few chapters to get in to, by the middle, everything seemed so real and NOW that I forgot it was told as a series of flashbacks! <br />
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Beautifully told, history (late 1800's-early 1900's), race relations and economics are viewed through the lens of the Mason family in the northeast United States. There are too many memorable characters to name, both good and bad. There's enough heartache, triumph and drama to make you beleive the Masons are a real family, and live on a real farm. <br />
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My favorite aspect of the book concerns a forbidden love between a young white man and his childhood friend, who happens to be a black woman. Although many stories are told in this novel, this one stands out to me. The two involved families try in vain to separate the couple, knowing they have nothing but pain ahead of them. The young people even try themselves to forget their love and move on. In the end, they cannot stay away from each other, and a daring plan is devised that offers some hope. <br />
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At its core, this book centers on race division and its effect on the inhabitants, both white and black, of the Mason Retreat. Take time to enjoy this book, the conclusion is well worth it!
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1385701-bekah">View all my reviews</a>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1590276536891705402.post-33941390965590346882012-07-28T06:00:00.000-04:002012-07-28T06:00:02.515-04:00Book Review: The Memory of You by Laurie Kellogg<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13458852-the-memory-of-you" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="The Memory of You " border="0" height="200" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1334238608m/13458852.jpg" width="133" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13458852-the-memory-of-you">The Memory of You</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5670953.Laurie_Kellogg">Laurie Kellogg</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/373181201">2 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Even though overall I enjoyed this book, I had to rate it as just "OK" because so much of it was unbelievable. This book was recommended for fans of <a href="http://reflectionsbyrebekah.blogspot.com/2012/05/book-review-lucky-one-by-nicholas.html" target="_blank">The Lucky One</a> (Nicholas Sparks), so that's why I picked it up for my Kindle. They are both about war veterans searching for healing and love, but that's really the only similarity.<br />
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Matt is a Vietnam vet who has lost his memory of everything in his life prior to becoming a POW- his name, his childhood, his wife. When his identity is finally discovered, he tracks down his wife, Abby, to make sure she is happy. He intends on letting her live her life as it has become, and go about his merry way. So far, so good. Sad, but believable.<br />
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Upon seeing her with their son and a new man, Matt's resolve falters. He keeps his identity a secret, calling himself Mac, and convinces Abby to let him move in as a handy man. This is where you really have to suspend belief... a single mother lets a total stranger move in, develop a close relationship with her son, and talk her out of marrying her fiance. Wow.<br />
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I will admit the passion and connection Matt and Abby rediscover is beautiful to witness, as is Matt's bonding with the son he never knew. The build-up to Abby realizing who this stranger really is ends with a disappoiting revelation- it just lacked the drama I thought was sure to happen. The characters themselves are likable-mostly. Abby's huge, trusting heart borders on stupidity, and Matt clings to his made-up name and motives just a little too long to be considered selfless.
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1385701-bekah">View all my reviews</a>Bekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06626966615920269238noreply@blogger.com0